Sunday, January 23, 2011

I hate you. I love you

ME:
     well l hope this gives you an idea about what am trying to tell you.

HIM:
     Yup, you're telling me that you are a hopeless romantic that believes in love at first sight.  To each their own; personally I don't believe in love at first sight.  My one big problem with the concept is that -- though I do believe you can fall in love with someone-- I, also, believe falling in love doesn't just happen. it isn't spontanious.

It doesn't happen in a matter of seconds, minutes, hours, or days, it takes weeks and months to fall in love.  An individual doesn't truely love someone when they first see them, or actually love them on the second visit.  What most don't realize is that it's chemistry, not love. It's that same Chemistry that says "Yes, I COULD fall in love with so and so" and not "Yes I am in love with so and so" why the difference, because you can't love someone you don't know. You can love the ideal of it, the dream of it, the possiblity of it, but you can't love someone you've just met on the street.

Love takes knowing someones in and outs, there vice's, quirks, and nit picks.  It's knowing what makes them tic and realising that, yes you may tic just fine on your own; but, something about that person's tic makes each of your tics just a bit more possitive, with a bit more bounce and a bit more life. And yes there may be others that can do that; BUT, that one individual does it in such a way that you just adore, and don't wish to ever want to be with out it.  That's love, and it takes time to get there.

And that... That doesn't happen with someone you just meet on the street.  So I'm sorry my friend, you're confused, it's not love you feel for me. It's only the dream of what may be, playing tricks with your heart.


ME: But this feeling hasn't gone away. And I know you for so many years. This is love!


HIM: No, it's not. You just think it's love, but it's not love.


ME: Why won't you give us a chance? Why won't you give this a chance?


HIM: I love someone else. When I saw her I knew it was love...love at first sight.


ME: But love at first sight doesn't exist. You said so yourself. What you're feeling is illusion. You are living a dream, it's just a trick your heart is playing on you.


HIM: No, it's love. I know it's love...


ME: Be it what you want, I shall not wait forever...


Months pass by.... and so my feelings....


HIM: I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you.


ME: You're too late. My feelings have dried like the rose in the wind. Right now...I actually don't know what to say, but I believe I have moved on. You didn't make the correct choice and now you can't do anything about it.


HIM: Find it in your heart you take me back. I now see what you were trying to tell me.


ME: Let me be....It's a bit late for forgiveness. You broke my heart and now you're breaking your own. How does it feel?...






PS: Urasc momentele astea :|

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